小的时候人们都讨厌平凡,可是长大后却努力地想实现平凡。以前认为理所当然的事情,现在却梦寐以求。People hate being ordinary when they are young, but when they grow up, they try to be ordinary. What used to be taken for granted is now a dream.
我们对年龄的恐惧,其实并不在于年龄增长所带来的苍老,而是恐惧随着年龄的增长,我们仍然一无所得。Our fear of age does not lie in old age, but in fear that as we grow older, we still get nothing.
人生充满选择:选择了宁静,就选择了孤独;选择了高山,就选择了坎坷;选择了执着,就选择了磨难!Life is full of choices: choose tranquility, choose loneliness; choose mountains, choose frustration; choose persistence, choose suffering!
有人心疼时,眼泪才是眼泪,否则只是带着咸味的液体;被人呵护着,撒娇才是撒娇,要不然就是作死。When someone is distressed, tears are tears, otherwise they are only salty liquid; when they are cared for, they are spoiled, or they are killed.
把自己最美好的品德和最擅长的技巧,无私地传承给需要它的人,这种美德比拥有任何财富都永恒。The virtue of selflessly passing on one’s best virtues and skills to those who need them is more eternal than possessing any wealth.
踏入社会的时候,该收一收你那性格了。不要什么话都跟别人讲,你说的是心里话,他们听的是笑话。When you enter society, it’s time to accept your personality. Don’t tell anyone anything, you’re talking in your heart, they’re listening to jokes.
生命太短,一分钟都不能留给那些让你不快的人或事。一个人时,善待自己;两个人时,善待对方。Life is too short to leave a minute to those who make you unhappy. Be good to yourself when you are alone, and be good to one another when you are together.
不要执著于令自己痛苦的事物,不要去惦记再也回不去的曾经。有些事,放弃得越早,未来就会越好。Don’t stick to the things that make you miserable, don’t think about the past that you can never go back to. Some things, the sooner you give up, the better the future will be.
快乐有四要素:可以改变的去改变,不可改变的去改善,不能改善的去承担,不能承担的就放下。Happiness has four elements: change what can be changed, improve what cannot be changed, undertake what cannot be improved, and let go what cannot be borne.
品味生活,完善人性。存在就是机会,思考才能提高。人需要不断打碎自己,更应该重新组装自己。Taste life and perfect human nature. Existence is opportunity, thinking can improve. People need to constantly break themselves, but also should reassemble themselves.
伤害你的人,不是比你强大就是比你弱小。如果他比你弱小,宽恕他;如果他比你强大,宽恕自己。People who hurt you are either stronger or weaker than you. If he is younger than you, forgive him; if he is stronger than you, forgive yourself.
真正的坚韧,应该是哭的时候要彻底,笑的时候要开怀,说的时候要淋漓尽致,做的时候不要犹豫。Real toughness should be thorough when crying, happy when laughing, incisive when speaking, and not hesitant when doing.
生命太短,没留时间给我们每日带着遗憾醒来。所以去爱那些对你好的人,忘掉那些不知珍惜你的人。Life is too short to wake up with regret every day. So love those who are good to you and forget those who don’t value you.
有的人活在过去的记忆中,有的人活在对未来的痴想中,只有活在今天的人,是把自己的一生掌握在手中。Some people live in the memory of the past, some people live in the fantasy of the future, only those who live in today, are in the hands of their own life.
人要学会过不同的生活,而学会过不同生活的标准是,无论碰上哪一种生活,都能够在其中找到快乐。People should learn to live different lives, and the standard of learning to live different lives is that no matter what kind of life they encounter, they can find happiness in it.
寂静在喧嚣里低头不语,沉默在黑夜里与目光结交,于是,我们看错了世界,却说世界欺骗了我们。Silence bows its head in the noise, silence knows its eyes in the dark, so we see the world wrong, but say that the world deceives us.
“斗志”就是一种敢于拼搏的精神,如果你拥有顽强的斗志,那你所做的每一件事都能获得圆满结果。”Fighting spirit” is a spirit of daring to fight, if you have a strong fighting spirit, then everything you do can achieve a satisfactory result.
一切总是会过去的。人之所以是能够感到“幸福”,那不是因为生活得舒适,而是因为生活得是有希望。Everything will pass. The reason why people can feel “happy” is not because they live comfortably, but because they live hopefully.
人生往往这样,你以为的希望,其实是让你陷得更深的绝望;而你认为无尽的绝望,在一拐角却满眼希望。Life is often like this, you think hope, in fact, let you fall deeper into despair; and you think endless despair, but in a corner full of hope.
令人难过的往往不是失望本身,而是在失望之前曾经心生的那些期望,像飞到半空再被狠狠跌落,生疼。It’s not disappointment itself that makes people sad. It’s the expectations they had before they were disappointed, like flying into the air and falling down hard, causing pain.